Friday, April 25, 2008

Sex and Disability

Since I am physically disabled i figured I would put together a short list of toys that work well for the disabled or enabled as some call it. :)

For reaching farther with sex toys to assist in mobility:

  • The Silicone Bendie G ($20) is perfect for people with disability because not only is longer than most it is bendable to reach the right spot. The Bendie G is good for people with mobility issues and available in 3 colors.
  • Hitachi Magic Wand ($39)has a long handle & tennis ball sized massage area. This vibrator has two very strong settings, and works well for clitoral stimulation or overall sensation play. This is a plug-in vibrator and can be used externally. Various attachments are available now for internal use for the g-spot, clitoral or prostate stimulation.
  • Adult Sex Toys that can be used hands-free:

  • For Women The My First Remote Butterfly vibrator ($39) is an adjustable, powerful toy that straps onto the thighs. The vibrating surface can be positioned for hands-free clitoral stimulation. The belt pack remote control makes it easy to set aside or strap onto clothing while out and about!
  • For Men I would go the Dr Joel's Stroking Power Pump ($48) for Hands-free operation. This is very handy for guys with mobility problems with moving their arms. Endorsed and prescribed by Dr. Joel Kaplan, this pump features robotic vertical suction action as well as intense multi-speed vibrations.
  • Alternative partner sex:

    Harnesses may be helpful for insertive sex alternatives. There are models available for men with erectile dysfunction to wear over their penis. Partners can also enjoy a variety of dildos for something new and different. Harnesses range from $25 to $150 for Deluxe Leather Harnesses
  • If someone has limited pelvic movement, the thigh harness that straps around the leg is a option for an intimate lap dance. $35
  • Double ended dildos are useful for partner sex because of their length. Some even include vibrators for additional stimulation.


  • Dallas Novelty offers the Nexus dildos in different sizes ($65) and the Tantus Feeldoe toys in 3 sizes (from $75 to $120).
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