Women: Vibes and You

Different women have different responses to vibrators. Some women have their very first orgasms with the help of a vibrator. Other women report that vibrators have a numbing effect on their sex organs. And, still other women say it took them a while to learn how to have orgasms from the stimulation provided by the vibrator. Whatever type of woman you are, check out the pointers below to get the best results from your vibrator.

Use Vibrators on the Clitoris
Because of the cylindrical shape of the traditional vibrator many women have inferred that the best way to use a vibrator is by inserting it into the vagina mimicking intercourse. However, the vast majority of women orgasm through clitoral stimulation and do not reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The clitoris is located outside the vagina about an inch or two above the vaginal opening (See “A Partner’s Guide to Clitoral Stimulation” for more information.) So, vibrators work best when used on or around your clitoris.

Move that Vibrator!
Though some women prefer to simply press a vibrator against their clitoris, most women require some kind of manual movement of the vibrator as well to achieve optimal pleasure. Try moving your vibrator up and down, back and forth, or in circles on your clitoris. Some women lie on their vibrators and circle their pelvis against it. And still others grasp their vibrator between their legs and contract their thighs to provide movement. Experiment with what types of movement feel most pleasurable to you.

Orgasm is a Learned Response
Orgasm is a learned response. You can actually teach yourself new ways to be orgasmic. Because different vibrators provide different sensations, using vibrators can help expand your ability to orgasm. By patiently experimenting with a variety of sex toys you can learn how to orgasm through new types of stimulation.

You have Options
These are lucky days for us women as there are all kinds of vibrators to choose from. Some women say they only reach orgasm from plug in vibrators as plug in vibes tend to provide a more powerful pulse than battery operated versions. I suggest trying the Hitachi Wand if you’re looking for a strong vibration. Other women swear by vibrators that provide both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time such as the IVIBE Rabbit . If you are a woman that gets numb from too much vibration, try a vibrator that provides intermittent sensation such as the Impulse Ultra Bullet. If one kind of vibrator doesn’t do it for you, don’t give up hope, you have a lot of options.

Vibrators and Safer Sex
Be aware that it is possible to spread viruses and bacteria associated with STDs by sharing vibrators and other sex toys. If you are sharing, cover your vibrator with a fresh condom every time a new person uses it (including yourself) to prevent disease transmission. Also remember to always clean a vibrator that has come into contact with the anus before using it in the vaginal area to avoid causing an infection. I recommend cleaning your vibrator with Befoe & After antibacterial/antiviral toy cleaner such as For-Play Ant-Bacterial Spray. Be safe and have fun.