Vibrators, Massagers....Oh My

Different women have different responses to vibrators. Some women have their very first orgasms with the help of a vibrator. Other women report that vibrators have a numbing effect on their sex organs. And, still other women say it took them a while to learn how to have orgasms from the stimulation provided by the vibrator. Whatever type of woman you are, check out the pointers below to get the best results from your vibrator.

Orgasm is a learned response. You can actually teach yourself new ways to be orgasmic. Because different vibrators provide different sensations, using vibrators can help expand your ability to orgasm.

Move that Vibrator!
Though some women prefer to simply press a vibrator against their clitoris, most women require some kind of manual movement of the vibrator as well to achieve optimal pleasure. Try moving your vibrator up and down, back and forth, or in circles on your clitoris. Some women lie on their vibrators and circle their pelvis against it. And still others grasp their vibrator between their legs and contract their thighs to provide movement. Experiment with what types of movement feel most pleasurable to you.

Use Vibrators on the Clitoris
Because of the cylindrical shape of the traditional vibrator many women have inferred that the best way to use a vibrator is by inserting it into the vagina mimicking intercourse. However, the vast majority of women orgasm through clitoral stimulation and do not reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone. The clitoris is located outside the vagina about an inch or two above the vaginal opening. There are lots of toys out that just concentrate on the clitoris such as the Emma's Passion Lily or Absolutely Angelic Blue.

G-Spot Fun
The G-Spot can be another source of fantastic orgasms if you can find it and use it to the full potential. The G-Spot can be found about 2 inches inside the vaginal canal on the top side, You can use a come hither motion to feel a spongy area. With the right touch the G-Spot orgasm can actually cause a female to ejaculate. The Chubby G Vibe is a very popular seller and seems to work very well. Another Hot Seller is the Insatiable G also called the G-Wiz Vibe that all the party girls sell. It is a combination Clit and G-Spot Arouser and does its job very well and very well priced at $36.

Lots of Options
These are lucky days for us women as there are all kinds of vibrators to choose from. Some women say they only reach orgasm from plug in vibrators as plug in vibes tend to provide a more powerful pulse than battery operated versions. I suggest trying the Hitachi Wand if you’re looking for a strong vibration and there are several new attachments available. Other women swear by vibrators that provide both clitoral and vaginal stimulation at the same time such as the IVIBE Rabbit . If you are a woman that gets numb from too much vibration, try a vibrator that provides intermittent sensation such as the Impulse Ultra Bullet. If one kind of vibrator doesn’t do it for you, don’t give up hope, you have a lot of options.

Vibrators and Safer Sex
Another thing most people are not aware of is possibility to spread viruses and bacteria associated with STDs by sharing vibrators and other sex toys. If you are sharing, cover your vibrator with a fresh condom every time a new person uses it (including yourself) to prevent disease transmission. Also remember to always clean a vibrator that has come into contact with the anus before using it in the vaginal area to avoid causing an infection. I recommend cleaning your vibrator with an antibacterial/antiviral toy cleaner such as My Joy Play Safe Toy Cleaner. Be safe and have fun.