Beginners Guide to Buying Intimate Gifts

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If aisles of adult videos, sex toy displays and racks of racy undergarments make you want to hide beneath the sheets, take a deep breath and let our experts lead the way to your orgasm.

Lingerie

To help women get in touch with their sensual side, our resident toy tester, Lori, will help you on your journey. One of the first places to look to get your partners juices flowing is with some sexy lingerie. This could be a nightie that shows just a little more than normal or a full blown garters, hose and heels. DallasNovelty.com has a very good selection of sensual clothing to fit everyone. A lot of the stores are just catering to the size 0 girls and leaving out a huge market of the every day size women like us but DallasNovelty.com has really sourced a lot of plus sized gear.

When looking through DallasNovelty.com look for the product that say queen sizes available and most will go up to 2, 3 or 4x. Mainstream clothing stores like Catherine, Lane Bryant and Avenue are starting to stock more sexy clothes as well. One of the newest items for us girls is the larger sizes being released for the vibrating panties. Pipedreams has released a Fetish Fantasy series Vibrating Panty that will go up to 52" hips. Your lover will thrill at the thought of turning you on from across the room as you quiver with anticipation! This discreet, waterproof bullet is quiet enough to wear the panties out on the town and no one but you and your lover will know. Insert the bullet into the slot in the panty plug which holds it perfectly in place and get set for incredibly powerful vibrations. At just $42 this little surprise will put a smile on both of your faces.

If your looking for something a little naughtier then look no further than Garter Belts and Stockings. Almost any man cant resist a woman in a garter belt and some sexy stockings. These Bewitched Stockings are a very popular stocking set and very affordable at just $16. You could pair them with this very nice Leather Garter Belt set with Lace Up Sides.

Sex Toys

For sex toys you always want to start small and simple. Once you become more adventurous then you can step up to a more advanced intimate toy. A good beginner toy is a Mini Mite type vibe that is used for external stimulation and very portable for use anywhere anytime. A good starter vibe is the Luv Touch Mighty Mite Vibe that has 4 different real skin feeling head attachments. Available in 3 exciting colors and just $12 so its hard to wrong with this one. Take a look in the Mini Vibe section and you will surely find one to your budget and liking. If you want something that both of you can use at the same time then look no further than the We-Vibe II from Standard Innovations. The original We-Vibe was simply amazing and the second coming with We-Vibe II promises even better times spent together. The We-Vibe II can be used solo as well but it is twice as fun when used as a couple and you can take my word on that ;) The new version has 2 speeds and 7 new variations of intensity and duration of vibrations. Two things to always remember when buying the We-Vibe II is to always use Water-Based Lubes and always charge it the full charge before using the first time.

Always remember a toy will not replace your lover it just gives you more options. For more ideas for your next toy take a look at Nicks new section As Seen On Oprah. This section will include most every sex toy that has been mentioned on the Oprah Show by Dr Laura Berman or Dr Oz.

Lubricants

We love to use Water-Based lubes because they work with every toy made even the newer silicone toys. Try to stick with glycerin free lubes because it is a sugar and that does not go well with our hooha's. But every womans body is different and has different tolerances to different ingredients. My suggestion would be to try several different lubes until you find one that works well for you. I really like the Sliquid H2O Lubricant because it is glycerin free and stays slick longer. Another great lubricant is the Pjur Eros Woman Aqua Lube, it is specially formulated to work like our natural lubrication. As with everything else you will need to test it out on your skin and rub it between your hands before applying to our most delicate of places.

Erotica

Yes ladies there is porn that both men and women can watch together and not feel like its all about the guy. Most of the videos are considered to be in the educational realm but provide great video erotica for women to enjoy. One video that I have seen and would help alot of women enjoy sex even more is the Unlocking the Secrets of the G-Spot from Sinclair Institute. It will show both of you how to and where to find the infamous G-Spot that is hidden inside. We have definitely explored and found mine and will never go back. There are quite a few different videos ranging from the best sex toys to advanced rope bondage techniques. Most are posted in the As Seen on Oprah Section and the rest are in the Educational DVD section on the main website.